Everyone needs a mentor. Why, you ask?
Because a mentor has a passion for YOU. They want to help you be exceptional at whatever it is you want to do.
Of course there are plenty of people in your life who want you to be exceptional.
But a mentor wants you to be exceptional purely because it brings them joy. Their investment in you is entirely selfless and is not clouded by what the relationship can bring them. They are not looking for you to be positive reflection on them. They have no need to judge your thoughts and ideas and choices. They expect nothing in return but the warm, fuzzy feeling they get from having made a positive impact on the life of another.
So how can a mentor help you to be exceptional?
A mentor can provide you with ...
information and knowledge
constructive criticism
probing questions
encouragement
tough love
a sounding board
objective advice
connections
lessons learned
inspiration
If the idea of a mentor sounds intriguing, you just have to look around to find one. Take a look at the inspiring people you are already working or interacting with! Look for someone who has something to teach you in the area that you want to excel.
Once you have identified a mentor, don't be afraid to ask them! Tell them what you want and how you envision the relationship will work.
After you have begun your mentoring relationship, be sure to treat your mentor with gratitude and respect. Be prompt. Be prepared with your questions. Follow through on any suggestions your mentor has. Keep your mentor updated on your progress. Make sure your mentor feels that you are using their time and wisdom wisely.
And, last but not least, pay your mentor back by becoming a mentor yourself!
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